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Bazen kap\u0131lar ge\u00e7 a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131r, yollar ge\u00e7 ayd\u0131nlan\u0131r; bu seni yormak i\u00e7in de\u011fil, haz\u0131rlanman i\u00e7indir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc her nasip, vaktinde g\u00fczeldir. Ve bil ki; gecikti sand\u0131\u011f\u0131n her \u015fey, asl\u0131nda kalbine en do\u011fru zamanda gelmek i\u00e7in yoldad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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Baz\u0131 dualar\u0131n cevab\u0131 hemen gelmez; bu, duyulmad\u0131klar\u0131 i\u00e7in de\u011fil, sen olgunla\u015fmadan sana zarar vermesin diyedir. Sab\u0131rla bekle ki, nasibin geldi\u011finde hem kalbin hem yolun haz\u0131r olsun.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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Ba\u015f\u0131na gelen her \u015feyi \u00e7\u00f6zmek zorunda de\u011filsin; bazen sadece tevekk\u00fcl edip sa\u011flam durman yeter. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Rabbine g\u00fcvenen, hi\u00e7bir zaman b\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fcyle \u00e7aresiz b\u0131rak\u0131lmaz.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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Gecenin en karanl\u0131k an\u0131nda bile, ufukta haz\u0131rlanan bir sabah vard\u0131r. Dertlerinin a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131 de\u011fil, umutlar\u0131n\u0131n direnci belirler y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fc.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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Her daralma, fark etmedi\u011fin bir kap\u0131ya y\u00f6nelmen i\u00e7in verilen i\u015farettir. Kap\u0131y\u0131 \u00e7almak senin, a\u00e7mak Rabbin i\u015fidir; ama \u00e7almad\u0131\u011f\u0131n kap\u0131n\u0131n ard\u0131ndaki rahmeti de bilemezsin.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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Kalbine a\u011f\u0131r gelen imtihanlar, seni k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcltmek i\u00e7in de\u011fil, i\u00e7indeki g\u00fcc\u00fc ortaya \u00e7\u0131karmak i\u00e7indir. Biraz daha sabret; hoyrat g\u00f6r\u00fcnen r\u00fczg\u00e2rlar, k\u00f6kleri sa\u011flamla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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Gecikmi\u015f zannetti\u011fin nice hay\u0131r vard\u0131r ki, erken gelseydi seni eksik yakalayacakt\u0131. Zaman\u0131 Rabbine b\u0131rak, gayreti kendine ay\u0131r; \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc emek senden, bereket O\u2019ndand\u0131r.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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Bazen dua ettiklerin de\u011fil, duada oldu\u011fun h\u00e2l kabul olur. Dile\u011fin de\u011fi\u015fmese de sen de\u011fi\u015firsin; i\u015fte as\u0131l nimet, kalbinin d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm\u00fcd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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Y\u00fck sand\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u015feylerin bir k\u0131sm\u0131, asl\u0131nda senden al\u0131nmas\u0131n diye s\u0131k\u0131ca tutundu\u011fun ge\u00e7ici ba\u011flard\u0131r. B\u0131rakman gerekeni b\u0131rak ki, yerine gelecek rahmete yer a\u00e7\u0131ls\u0131n.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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Yolunu kaybettim sand\u0131\u011f\u0131n anlarda, asl\u0131nda y\u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fc yeniden se\u00e7me f\u0131rsat\u0131n do\u011far. Her yanl\u0131\u015f ad\u0131m, t\u00f6vbe ile birle\u015fti\u011finde, seni daha sa\u011flam bir do\u011fruya ta\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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Kalbini k\u0131ran olaylar de\u011fil, o olaylar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndaki tercihlerindir. \u00d6fkeyi de\u011fil merhameti se\u00e7ti\u011finde, kaybetti\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn yerde bile kazan\u0131rs\u0131n.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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Umudunu insanlar\u0131n eline b\u0131rak\u0131rsan, s\u00f6zleriyle y\u0131k\u0131l\u0131r, susu\u015flar\u0131yla da incinirsin. Umudunu Rabbine emanet etti\u011finde ise, ne bir s\u00f6z eksiltir ne bir sessizlik \u00e7o\u011falt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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Kimi g\u00fcnler g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc olman de\u011fil, sadece da\u011f\u0131lmaman beklenir senden. O g\u00fcnlerde bile terk edilmedi\u011fini bil; \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc en sessiz anlar\u0131nda bile Rabbin sana \u015fah damar\u0131ndan daha yak\u0131nd\u0131r.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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Ko\u015farak istedi\u011fin pek \u00e7ok \u015fey, y\u00fcr\u00fcyerek geldi\u011finde daha hay\u0131rl\u0131 olabilir. H\u0131z\u0131n de\u011fil, y\u00f6n\u00fcn do\u011frudur \u00f6nemli olan; zira yanl\u0131\u015f y\u00f6ne h\u0131zl\u0131 gitmek, sadece kayb\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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Affetmek, haks\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 onaylamak de\u011fildir; kalbini kin zincirinden kurtarmakt\u0131r. Affedince sen hafiflersin, y\u00fck\u00fc ise adalete b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015f olursun.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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Her g\u00fcn, sana emanet edilen yeni bir sayfa gibidir. D\u00fcn yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n hatalar\u0131, bug\u00fcn pi\u015fmanl\u0131k ve gayretle doldurursan, yar\u0131na ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u015fey umut olur, y\u00fck de\u011fil.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck g\u00f6r\u00fclen iyilikleri erteleyerek, b\u00fcy\u00fck f\u0131rsatlar\u0131 da ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131rs\u0131n. Bazen bir g\u00fcl\u00fcmseme, bir selam, bir g\u00f6n\u00fcl alma; senden \u00f6nce cennete varan amelin olabilir.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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Kalbini karartan \u015fey \u00e7o\u011fu zaman sorunlar\u0131n de\u011fil, \u015f\u00fckretmeyi ihmal etti\u011fin nimetlerindir. Eksik olanlara de\u011fil, var olanlara bakmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frendi\u011finde, y\u00fck\u00fcn hafifler, nefesin geni\u015fler.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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K\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n yerde tamamen kopmak zorunda de\u011filsin; bazen sadece mesafeyi ve duay\u0131 art\u0131rmak yeter. \u0130nsanlardan adalet, Rabbinden ise rahmet beklemek kalbi dengede tutar.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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Planlar\u0131n bozuldu\u011funda, hayat\u0131n da bozuldu sanabilirsin. Oysa belki de sadece senin plan\u0131n bozulmu\u015f, senin i\u00e7in daha hay\u0131rl\u0131 olan ilah\u00ee plan devreye girmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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Karanl\u0131\u011fa bak\u0131nca korku, g\u00f6\u011fe bak\u0131nca \u00fcmit g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u00fcn. Nereye bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n, i\u00e7inden ge\u00e7ti\u011fin d\u00f6nemi de\u011fil, o d\u00f6nemi nas\u0131l ta\u015f\u0131yaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirir. Bu y\u00fczden g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc karanl\u0131\u011fa de\u011fil, karanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 yar\u0131p do\u011fan ayd\u0131nl\u0131\u011fa \u00e7evir.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Bazen kap\u0131lar ge\u00e7 a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131r, yollar ge\u00e7 ayd\u0131nlan\u0131r; bu seni yormak i\u00e7in de\u011fil, haz\u0131rlanman i\u00e7indir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc her nasip, vaktinde g\u00fczeldir. Ve… <\/p>\n

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